Okay, bj was wrong and his presentation baffled you. You like him and think he puts some premium on what you say. And you are 'trying' to be honest with me now.

Since being honest is an effort for you, I wish you luck with this. The 'first four pounds' thing was a joke (which most people would get based on me saying I talked to horses about it).

I'm going to stop monopolizing space on the board, as this topic (including the revelations about your character) is exhausted.

It figures you have to beseech your big bro JB to get involved. I met plenty of guys like you in the schoolyard who fell back on this kind of thing when they were out of gas. How candy-assed can you get?

As for the 'psychological' implications, I don't think I called Aly names even ONCE (before now). HP